Holding the tension of opposites is to be passionately committed to your career development and keeping a part of your life separate from your career to enjoy your family.

As the question brings examples of opposite things, time spent in the commitment of career development and time spent in the dedication with family, this either/or thinking can bring tension into your life. It may become a bit uncomfortable. The pressure can be painful, but when you practice these minor pains, you expand your views promoting harmony at work and personal life. Click the link below for more. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/stronger-the-broken-places/201807/holding-the-tension-the-opposites