Holding the tension of opposites is to abandon the concept there is only one right idea, and the ones that differ are not right. Also, different opinions and points of view should coexist as people differ as individuals. You realize you can use this ability in both personal and professional fields. Your spouse and your colleagues hold many different or opposite ideas compared to yours. So, try to listen more and understand them better. You will hold the tension for sure.! President Barrack Obama comments that if you can see all the sides involved in something, believe all of them can coexist, then you are "less prone to be trapped by "dogma." In his words, it is not to be trapped in "a narrow way of thinking," and that includes the way you think about your work and personal life.
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